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AVOIDANT ATTACHMENT:
VIDEO TOOLS
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Thais Gibson of the Personal Development School in particular ("tools and tips for the subconscious mind") makes excellent videos on attachment. She also has online courses and extensive resources to reprogram your attachment style, through which many people have converted to secure attachment, and on other mental health topics. Check out her and other videos below, and more on YouTube.
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Attachment
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40 Key Traits of the
Dismissive Avoidant
The Avoidant in Relationships
Avoidant: How to Lead
a Healthier & Happier Life
Avoidant Obstacles & Solutions
(incl. experiencing emotion as criticism)
Avoidant Core Wounds &
How To Reprogram
Avoidant Attachment, Emotional
Neglect & Reprogramming It
Healing the Dismissive
Avoidant Attachment Style
7 Main Avoidant Deactivating
Strategies & Why
Avoidants & Counter-Dependency
Counter-Dependency & Love
Avoidant: What Your Partner
Wants YouTo Know
Avoidant Attachment Intro
Why the Avoidant is Passive
Aggressive & What to Do
How to be Vulnerable
Why Avoidants Doubt Their Feelings
So Often In Relationships
Why Avoidants Doubt Their Feelings
Cont.
Avoidants in the
Power Struggle Phase
Patterns to Recognise if an Avoidant is Becoming Securely Attached
Avoidants & Limerance:
What Creates Attraction
The Link Between
Avoidants & Depression
Avoidants &
Long Distance Relationships
The Avoidant's 8 Major Core Wounds
& Emotional Patterns
Why Two Avoidants In A
Relationship Don't Last
Avoidants, Avoiding Greetings,
& How To Greet a Partner
Avoidants - How To Process Emotions
(Self-Soothing vs. Coping)
How Avoidants Retraumatise
What Deactivating Is Like
How To Overcome
Deactivating Strategies
How Avoidants Experience
Romantic Feelings
Are You Falling Out of Love or Just Deactivating? Signs You're Still In Love
Avoidants: Shutting Down &
Feeling Like A Bad Partner
Avoidant Core Wound: "I Am Defective"
The Avoidant Relationship Shadow
What Communication Should Be Like
As You Become More Secure
How To Achieve Secure
Attachment Fast
5 Types of Deactivating Strategy:
Fear, Sadness, Self-Protection,
Resentment, Feeling-Avoidance
4 Types of Avoidant
Boredom & Avoidant Attachment:
How To Reframe Your Fears
Reparenting Avoidant Needs
Avoidant's Dating Checklist part 1
Avoidant's Dating Checklist part 2
Individual
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Shadow Work
Enmeshment Trauma
Guilt
Re-Parenting Your Inner Child
How To Improve Your Self-Esteem
Why You Feel Depressed
Narcissistic Parents
How To Get Over
Fear Of Commitment
Fear of Commitment
Why You're Indecisive
Master Your Emotions
Criticism When You've Had
A Bad Childhood
Relationships
Anchor 3
Bids for Connection
Thriving Post-Honeymoon Phase
(ways to create love & keep it alive)
5 Steps to Resolve Conflict
The Danger of Being
Too Polite in Love
Why We Sabotage Love
How Unmet Needs Create Infatuation
How To Create & Rebuild Trust
How To Cope When You've Been Left
Avoidant Dax Shepard on how he
makes it work with Kristen Bell
How To Stop Being Attracted To Emotionally Unavailable People
Why You Will Marry The Wrong Person
The Recipe for a Secure, Healthy Relationship (podcast)
The Hardest Person In The
World To Break Up With
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For Partners
Dating The Avoidant
The Avoidant's Idea of
a Healthy Relationship
The Avoidant Partner
How to Cope with an Avoidant Partner
How to Respond to an
Avoidant Partner
Why the Avoidant is Emotionally
Closed and How to Open Up
What Love Feels Like
For An Avoidant
5 Warning Signs Your
Relationship is Toxic
Avoidants & Sex
Avoidant or Narcissistic?
Avoidant or Just Not Interested?
Signs an Avoidant is Ready for Love
Finally, just for fun, sometimes it helps to just... stop it!
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